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Joy Moore and the Fierce Art of Tough Love

Joy Moore is a model of tough love and relentless commitment. She represents the kind of parenting that balances compassion with accountability—something that ultimately steers her son, the author, toward success.


When Joy realizes her son is falling into dangerous patterns—cutting class, getting into fights—she doesn’t wait for things to get worse. She acts quickly, enrolling him in military school. This decision is neither easy nor immediately embraced by Wes, but it proves transformative. Military school becomes a turning point, instilling in him a sense of responsibility, discipline, and leadership.

Joy’s parenting reflects the uncomfortable but necessary truth that sometimes love means saying "no." It means removing your child from harmful situations even when it creates temporary strain. She understood that her role wasn’t to shield her son from every hardship, but to prepare him for the real world by holding him to high standards.

Her story resonates with any parent who’s had to make hard decisions for the sake of their child’s future. In an age when permissive parenting is often confused with love, Joy Moore reminds us that boundaries, structure, and hard choices are acts of deep, enduring care. 







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  1. Professor KnauerMay 18, 2025 at 6:41 PM

    So well written! I love your closing about Wes Moore's (the author's) mother Joy.
    "Her story resonates with any parent who’s had to make hard decisions for the sake of their child’s future. In an age when permissive parenting is often confused with love, Joy Moore reminds us that boundaries, structure, and hard choices are acts of deep, enduring care."
    Thank you for sharing this video, too. I did not realize that Joy Moore had several degrees and that she has now written a book. I've got to read it! Love the ML King quote she cites in the video:
    "Your children need your presence not presents."

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